The Boy is also broken

The Broken Boy Soul Also Weep, We encourage a narrower range of emotions in boys than girls which can be harmful to Boys in the long run.

Many boys have exactly two speeds when it comes to emotion: They are "okay," or they are "angry." Many parents are shocked at how quickly their sons become belligerent, but it should come as no surprise. Anger is culturally acceptable for boys (and men) and creates its own set of problems.

A lack of emotional diversity is not just important for young boys but continues to be so as emotionally restricted young boys mature into adult men with more rigid emotional repertoires. Experiencing the full range of emotions may not only benefit young boys’ psychological health but have far-reaching benefits for society at large.

Because boys are sometimes prone to anger and aggression, it is wise to model being calm and respectful when dealing with problems. Take a cool-off if you must, but avoid yelling and anger, and remember that emotions are not mysterious forces that threaten to overwhelm us; they are part of what makes us most human.

When you can teach your boy to understand and express his feelings respectfully and clearly, you are helping him take a giant step toward true manhood.

Credit: Scientific American and Annonymous