Let us teach the boychild

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Let us teach the boychild that;
* Find someone you can trust and talk to when you have a challenge.

*Don't listen to those who say men don't cry. Cry out if and when you are in need of help. Not everyone will call you a stubborn or bad boy. Someone will listen to you, put himself/herself in your shoes, understand you and advise you.

* The feeling you are having as an adolescent is natural and normal. Control yourself and don't go raping or harassing girls when your body is misbehaving. That may take you to jail and waste your life.

* Take responsibility for your actions. Having sex at a young age is wrong but if you do and impregnate your fellow school mate or girl at your age, do not neglect her to go through all the humiliation and suffering all by herself.

* Do not go having sex when you are not ready to take responsibility.

* As you grow up and have a wife and/or father children, take responsibility and never neglect your children as you surely regret it in old age.

* Do not waste your time, energy and money (whether hard earned or inherited) on women and alcohol.

* A man at age 60 doing a menial job looks more miserable than a woman of that age doing same or similar job.

* Save and invest in the right things.

* Do not accept just anything that life throws at you. Decide you want to be somebody. Do not fall prey to weed smoking, armed robbery and the likes.

*Have dreams and work at them.

*Learn to do chores, at least washing your own dishes and clothes.

*Do not grow up not knowing no house chores so you don't go enslaving your wife in future.

*Learn to cook little and easy meals at least for your own self.

* Do not in any way undermine or underrate women under any circumstance.

We are humans first, before male or female. What is good for the goose is good for the gander.

By Helena Adutwumwaa Bonto

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